In My Opinion.

I can understand why people are sluts, or sleep around because I get lonely too, and sometimes I think to myself maybe it's easier to sleep around to get attention  and affection rather than waiting on the right one or trying to find the 'one' for the affection that I desire. I always tell my friends that staying busy to keep yourself on the right path helps because the less down time you have the less time you have to be lonely. And I always recommend being productive in any way possible whether its continuing your education, learning a new hobby or skill, volunteering, or doing more with or for your children or family because it makes you feel good about yourself while it keeps  your mind occupied. Of course these things don't keep you busy all of the time sometimes you will find yourself along, sometimes you will find your mind drifting but the truth is we have to be ok being alone sometimes, and we have to love our selves and know what we want or need and make the right decisions for ourselves. Everyone is different and we have different needs and it is up to us to fulfill our needs but in a  way that feeds us both mentally and physically because if we fill the space with frills and nothingness we will eventually be worse than lonely.  I wish for everyone to be happy, healthy, and fulfilled. I believe that people are inherently born good. I believe that shivery is not dead, and that there is someone out there for me and that is why I wait.